Showing posts with label habit. Show all posts
Showing posts with label habit. Show all posts

2007/08/05

Friend online or offline

One of my close friend asked if I have blog. I said yes but I dont let her know the URL.

I'm not comfortable to cummunicate with friends from "real world" by BBS or BLOG, I preffer point to point communication, face to face, or by phone, letter, mail. It makes me feel very weird to show the communication between friends in public place. I saw nowadays couples often go online to resolve their problem, the woman said blah blah, the man then went after, said oh, here is your real hearty words, moved, and want the woman forgive him. I really can't bear such communication. It's kind of show, ridiculous.

And I also would not like to go too close with friends from "virtual world", I ever have the chance to meet or talk with my adired writer from online, but I decided to look from a certain distance.

My points to this may ever make me miss something, which is really a pity.

2007/07/07

Live happy

Oh, my heaven, Looking from the blog list, it seems I'm really busy or lazy these days. I'm enjoying learning, thinking, praticing.

It's very hot in Shanghai now. The peanuts being sold are gemmating.

One good line I want to mark is that: you can live not rich, but you should live happy. Don't worry so much. In most time risks are what we can go over or ignore comparing with our happiness of our entire life. And the best way to control risk and get rid of the difficulties is to take it serious from strategy, but look down on it from tactics (战略上重视敌人,战术上藐视对手).

Another line is following: everyone can be your teacher. I met an old man recently, he smoked too much and seems not polite, which made me want to run away from him, but slowly I found he has very good business sense, experiences, and method, repect people who he think respectable, and has very active life attitude. you can't judge one from his habit, or his outlooking. I'm a little surprised when realizing I changed my view in one day.

Doesn't I always enjoy finding good side from people?

2007/05/15

Noodle and rice

Usually people in Northern and western China like noodles, and those from south like rice.

I know a man of 50 age live Shanghai for more than 30 years, but he never ate a bowl of rice, he came from Dalian, a city located in Nothern China. And one of my friend said he felt sick when he hadn't eaten noodles for one week in a long trip.
And me, from South China, prefer rice products certainly, I could not endure living with flour meals all day long. I make cake at home, but after several times, I think I didnot enjoy it, I'd rather eaten a piece of Toufu, butter, cheese, cream, are not my favorite foods, I can eat them for holiday, but not everyday. It can be a reason that why Cafe are not very popular here.

The habit grown from childhood cannot be easily changed. Is it a strange phenomenon? Maybe it can be interpreted by scientist. Are they something related to the stomach adoption?